The thing about Reunion Dinners.

Today is my Family's CNY reunion dinner. I don't remember when did it started to be held not on the traditional CNY eve & way before it like today. It's probably born out of necessity. See my siblings are married & they have to attend the reunion dinner of their spouses' side. So.... which side to attend? In the end it has been agreed that we choose a weekend that's 'convenient' for everyone.

Then on the actual CNY Eve, I'll end up having to be the only one dinning with my poor parents, who are not really that happy about the situation. It's like they have to give in to the other side! Anyway I have remedied that situation. I'll be inviting other "homeless' people to my place. Not really homeless as in no where to stay, rather there's a big group of people with no where to go during the eve. You'll be surprise!

I've a single mum friend, a couple of foreigner colleagues all without immediate family to 'celebrate' the eve. So they will be coming to my place :))

People,there is more to life than dating !

I kept telling everyone that, as 'well-meaning ' friends are endlessly trying to "fix" me up with some "GREAT GUY". It's getting VERY tiring.

For once I could get up late during the weekends & do practically nothing. Then I gather my parents & we go tim sum. Seriously, my parents are enjoying my 'single status'. They get to see me more. And we get to go to all the "IT" Tim Sum places in town.

I even have time to email some friends who had allocated abroad, check their facebook entries etc... Then there's reading, finally..... I could finish a couple of really good books. I never have time to read when I was dating- no time for myself!

My BFF suggest I get a cat ....lol.... She send me this pic :))

Do we really need another person to complete us?

Everyone is concern about my single status. Cant blame them, in the past I do go everywhere with my X & everyone is so used to seeing him when I'm around. Maybe they just need to get used to seeing me alone. Funny thing is , why do people immediately associate loneliness with single people?

Do we really need another person to complete us? I'm feeling just fine & enjoying myself. What's best is I do not have to compromise everything anymore. I can take all kinds of spicy food now. Before everything needs to be mild because he has a 'sensitive' stomach. Now I can load in tons of chilli & enjoy the fiery spicy food all I want! What a relief!

I can also watch all my favorite shows. Dr Oz, American sitcoms etc... I don't have to ever watch another cartoon ever! Ya... he loves cartoons, don't ask me...I don't understand either:(( Well it's a Saturday & I'm home feeling sick, so thought, I'll update my blog.

 Since we are on this subject, I'm enjoying my peace at home, it's so quiet. I'm sick, yet happy ...lol.... In the past he'll be like texting me for the tenth time by now to check on me !

Single ladies

After my break-up, my other single friends welcome me to their club as a temporary member ....lol... Those who were without a bf for the longest time laughed so hard & told me to get a new bf asap. But I think I'll wait. It is just so much fun now. I can go out with who ever I want.

These single ladies were complaining about other well meaning friends & relatives & the weirdest & annoying things they do say. Here are some funny ones I like to share:

Things single ladies are tired of hearing !

1. “How are you still single? You’re so great.”

2. “It’ll happen when you least expect it.”

3. “Don’t you ever get lonely?”

4. “One day when you’re married, you’ll wish you were single.”

5. “There are plenty of fish in the sea.”

6. “You’re just too picky.”

7. “You should let me set you up, I know the perfect person for you.”

8. “ Sooner or later , it’ll happen.”

9. “So, are you seeing anyone?”

Review: Whitening Jabs / Skin Boosters with Dr Keith Ong

Have been thinking of doing the whitening jab aka Skin Boosters. Some clients have been telling me about this & they seriously swear by it. It fixes everything- from whitening to tiny wrinkles & lines! I've done the whitening Vitamin C jabs in the past, that fixes & whitens the whole body. But you need to do that consistently, & I was getting lazy, haha. So when this new whitening jab comes out, I'm very pleased & excited.

Check with a couple of friends & they told me this Whitening Jab /Skin Boosters , it's all the rage in Korea now. Went to the Restylane web site & found out that it had won some kind of High Design Quality award in 2014. Very impressive !!! Apparently it helps the skin from inside out through a series of micro-injections of Restylane, a soft gel-like substance that absorbs water & provides deep skin hydration creating firmness, elasticity & smoothness. Eliminating fine lines & brightening the skin.

After some online research, I thought I'll give myself a Christmas treat, went to Dr Keith & requested for this Whitening jab/ Skin Booster treatment. Well this is probably the best thing I've done for myself. One month later the result is lovely. The much talked about radiant dewy look is beautiful. I'm pretty please & satisfy ...LOL... Best part is, I found out I could go without make-up if I wanted to. It's that GREAT !

The procedure is simple. The nurse apply a film of numbing cream on my face for about 10 mins. After that Dr Keith start the procedure which lasted only for about  another 10 mins. Dr Keith is pretty skillful, he could do it very fast which really helps. For those of you who are scare of pain, don't worry. With the numbing cream, you'll only feel a slight discomfort, which is totally bearable.  

They also apply mask for me after the treatment, which was nice and cooling, feels good :)) I had some bruising which was expected, but no swelling- great! Next day I could put on some make-up & go to work as usual, so no big deal. Within a week,everything is back to normal but my face seems slimmer , yes I'm serious, it's probably due to the rejuvenated toned look. The skin soft, fairer & yes dewy, Lovely !!! I also realized those tiny lines that I used to have here & there were gone too! Wonderful !!!

If you want to look better, Go for it. Oh in case you are interested it's $1800 for 3 treatments. One treatment is $850- for those who just want to check it out. 

Dr Keith Ong @ 360 Orchard, International Building,
# 04-10
Tel;9746-7720
H/P:  8777-0736
Open from:
 Monday & Friday    : 10am-1pm & 3pm-8pm
Tuesday &Wednesday  : 3pm to 8pm
Saturday: 10am -1pm
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Being Single again is liberating :)

Cant believe it's 2015 already. 2014 was a challenging year for me. I join a new industry, got a new job. Settling in was not easy. But good news is, now I'm fine & doing GREAT.

On the relationship front, I wasn't doing too well either. We drifted apart, as I was working too much & "have no time " for him. Rather I was too tired to join him in his usual activities , he got pissed & that's it. Rather childish I would say. He don't read my blog but his friends does, so no details here ...haha...

Being single again is odd but liberating, I need some adjustments. But I'm liking it. I do what ever I want. I can wear mini skirts, body hugging clothes - which was forbidden when I was dating! I buy anything now, don't need to "seek" approval" - totally annoying. Don't need to compromise. I should have said good bye a long time ago :))

How to take better pictures: Simple Tricks

A friend got me  a brand new handphone this Christmas . Yes it's a Samsung replacing my IPhone 5G. Why? He said since I love taking pictures , for the bigger screen of course! Very touched & happy ! Talking about taking pictures, here's some tips from someone who loves using her hp just for that :))

1. Think Good or Funny Thoughts

You might go huh??? But it’s important- sometimes the best way to get a good expression is to realistically think about something pleasant: a special moment, your favorite song, a funny happening. Real thoughts of happiness help get a genuine smile or look and calm an otherwise forced facial expression.

2. Practice Posing

For people with thin lips, part them slightly and blow lightly to create the illusion of fuller ones. Don’t worry about your round face, all you need to do is avoid facing the camera straight on and instead turn the head slightly to one side. Practice with selfies, if you don't get it right the first time it's ok, just delete it until you get the right shot & angle. It might take many shots before you get the one you like, but it's very satisfying :))

3. Smile but you need to find Your Signature Smile

If you ever follow any celebrity closely, you’ll notice they almost always have the same smile & expression when posing for photos. Well, it’s because they’ve tons of experts to figure out what’s their best angle & what works for them.  Again take tons of selfies until you find a ‘signature’ smile that makes you look the best. Like they say practice makes perfect. Besides it’s fun doing it J 

4. For standing shots, just naturally put Your Hands On Your Hips

Your fingers should be out & palms facing behind you. Why? Because this way your waist is accentuated , creating the perception a slimmer you. It’s better than having your arms dangling awkwardly by your side right?

Go on have lots of fun taking many pictures this holiday season :)

Happy New year everyone !!!!